Tuesday, June 05, 2007

The "Balancing Act"

Every parent I know occasionally struggles with the concept of balancing life correctly. Home vs. work issues, finding time for one's self, and feeling that you are completely giving your best to your spouse and your children are all issues that transcend gender lines. The issues may begin when children are young and one parent decides to commit to being at home full time. They may arise again when teens require additional attention for both supervision and nurturing an emotional connection. We all try our very best to give 110% of our time, energy and intentions to functioning well professionally while not neglecting our families. Even those who "stay at home" may feel challenged by the drain of life's daily commitments.

This week, while catching up on podcasts, I found an incredible gem over at the Rosary Army . In "Balancing Act" Jennifer shares about her conflict over wanting to be an integral part of the Rosary Army apostolate while at the same time being a full time mother to four very active young sons. Greg has recently transitioned to working full time for the apostolate from home, so this has really changed their household dynamics. The two hold a very frank and emotionally laden conversation during this podcast. I found myself wanting to call them and give them both virtual hugs! The issues they are discussing are at the core of so many of our hearts and minds.

Life truly is a balancing act. No two families or homes have the same set of circumstances. What works well in one home might be disastrous in another. Some "stay home", while others work in or out of the home. The common denominator is a deeply held desire to do our very best at both raising our families and using our God-given talents to bring Him glory and to share His love with others. I thank Greg and Jennifer for their honesty and for reminding the rest of us that we are never alone in the "balancing act" .

2 comments:

Greg said...

If only you knew how close I came to not posting that episode! In retrospect, I'm very glad I did. Thanks for the super kind words, Lisa.

Unknown said...

Wow, a comment from GREG on my blog!!! Being such a Rosary Army fan, I'm thrilled to see that he stopped by for a visit!
Lisa